I am so truly sorry for your loss.  I wish this nightmare called SIDS would end so no one will ever have to deal with this pain. 

Some things I did after Layla's death I am so thankful for and if you see this in time, maybe you will have time to do them as well if you haven't already. 

1. Have someone go get a molding kit and give it to the hospital or medical examiners office.  Ask them to make molds of your baby's hands and feet.  They are truly a treasure.

2.  Ask for a lock of the baby's hair.  The funeral home did this for me when they were getting Layla ready for the service.  They put it in a little velvet bag for me and I keep it in a memory box next to my bed. 

3.  Another thing is to ask the hospital or medical examiners office to make a bunch of hand and foot prints on paper.  Like they do when the baby is born.  This way you can have some to give out to grandparents or aunts and uncles or whomever.  Also the funeral home would probably do this for you as well if you brought them the paper and ink. 

4.  I did not want pictures taken at Layla's service, but now I wish I had just one of the closed casket with all of the floral arrangements around her.  There were so many of them and they were so beautiful, but I can barely remember them now.  So it would be nice if I were to have a photo of that to go back and look at once in a while when I am in the mood.